Renewal When we are Weary

April 02, 2019

Galatians 6:9 & Psalm 38:10  Have you ever been weary – not just physically, but in other ways too? As I think about our lives, there are plenty of things we may be weary from. These include grief, pain, uncertainty, outpouring without adequate renewal, worries or concerns (i.e. health, finance, family, society), a long season of struggle, and more. When we get weary, we may become embarrassed at our sense of inadequacy. We may become confused, frustrated, or discouraged by having more demand on us than we have resources. We may be tempted to compromise or cope in unhealthy ways. Our key Psalms verse and others like it help us know God cares about our weariness, and it is OK to tell Him about it. Let’s look further.


  • The Call to Strength and Continuance – If we look at our Galatians key verse and others like it, we find that, as Christians, we are called to strengthen ourselves and continue in faithfulness. This can be hard, and we might wonder where to find strength.


  • Source of Strength – Ultimately, the Lord God is the true source of strength. We are told to seek Him and His strength. See Psalm 73:26.


  • Invitation to Rest and Relationship in Jesus – Look at Psalm 23, Mark 6:31, and Isaiah 30:15b. Also, Matthew 11:28-30 finds Jesus inviting us to come to Him for rest.


Sometimes, we are weary because of busyness or trying to serve God in our own strength. Other times, we are depleted in soul and spirit, not in good connection with the Lord. There is a call to find our strength in Him as we rest in Jesus and seek His strength and renewal. At what points or in what ways do you need to come to Him and find rest? How can you create that space for rest and strengthening?


Dealing With a Difficult Past – Part 2

March 26, 2019

Psalm 30 & Psalm 77:5  Last week, I asked about the high and low points in your past. Then, we looked at categories of things in our past, how people relate to the past, and what kind of things come out of the past. Now, let’s go further with some help dealing with a difficult past.


Scriptural principles for dealing with crippling and destructive things from the past:

  • Fear – Cultivate trust in God and your relationship w/ God, and ask God to increase your power for serving Him and diminish fear.
  • Regret – Receive the work of Jesus by grace through faith and ask for the Lord’s power for living rightly and healing for those you have hurt.
  • False and Destructive Beliefs About God, Self, and Others – Learn and live in truth of God’s Word and find Christian encouragement, edification, and equipping.
  • Destructive Patterns and Actions – Learn and live in God’s truth as well as Christian encouragement, edification, and equipping. Also, seek the Spirit’s power for obedience.
  • “Package of Poison”: Resentment, Anger, Bitterness, Hardness, Un-forgiveness, Hatred – Cultivate the Fruit of Spirit, choose to forgive by God’s power, seek God’s healing for your heart and mind, and entrust the issue to God.


Satan wants us to believe that hurt in our lives entitles us to be ugly to   others and that being ugly to others, hurtful, etc. will make us feel better, but it will not. It only dishonors God and perpetuates hurt. Here are some ways to deal with the past redemptively:

  • Repent of sin
  • Seek deliverance and healing for self and others
  • Entrust it to the Lord and look for how it can be turned into something redemptive. Sometimes, simply let it go even though that can be very difficult.
  • When it has led to mental illness, get help.


We need to set the past in perspective under God and His truth. We may seek deliverance from its bondage, learn from it, and sometimes find encouragement from it. We can revisit what is helpful, learn what is needed, celebrate God’s goodness, and live more fully today in Jesus.


Dealing With a Difficult Past

March 19, 2019 
Psalm 77:5  If we were to look through photo albums together, what would I see? What stories are represented, and what are the highs and lows? It seems we could benefit from help with those difficult things in our past.


What are Some Categories of Things in the Past?

  • Good Times – victories, success and accomplishment, peaceful and enjoyable times, and times of investing in the future
  • Difficulties and Challenges – hard circumstances, hurts and grief, injustices and betrayals
  • Failures – missteps and misjudgments, life detours, and sin
  • God’s Work – His work in Jesus, His work in our lives, and His work through us in others


How do People Relate to the Past?

  • Live in the past
  • Deny or re-shape to fit their preferences
  • Let it and their response to it destroy self and others
  • Deal with it redemptively – This includes repenting of sin, seeking deliverance and healing of hurts, entrusting the past to the Lord for Him to use in some way.


What Kind of Things Can Come out of the Past?

  • Stability and good foundations – strength of character, insights, wisdom, life principles
  • Crippling and destructive things – fear, resentment, hatred, hardness, bitterness, anger, regret, false beliefs and assumptions, and destructive patterns and habits
  • Growth and tools to help others – When we respond to our past well and grow in the grace of God, we can become more able to come alongside others and help them deal with things in a God-honoring way.


I believe we need to set the past in perspective under God and His truth. We may seek deliverance from its bondage, learn from it, and sometimes find encouragement from it. We can revisit what is helpful, learn what is needed, celebrate God’s goodness, and live more fully today in Jesus.


What’s God’s Job and What’s Our Job?

March 12, 2019 Philippians 2:12-14  As we think about life and our world, how involved is God? As you think about your faith and life, what does God want and what do you want when it comes to His work and yours? What is God’s job, and what is our job?  

  • When it Comes to Witness and Serving? – Look at passages like 1 Peter 3:15, Matthew 16:13-19,  Matthew 28:18-20, John 16:5-16,              1 Corinthians 3:6-8, Romans 12:1-8, and 1 Corinthians 12.  Sometimes, we try doing the work of God in our own ability, while other times, we might think God should do, on His own, anything He wants done. What we see is a cooperation in which God empowers and we serve.


  • When it Comes to Christian Growth and doing Church? – Look at passages like Philippians 2:12-14, Romans 8:5-17, and 2 Peter 1:3-11, and John 151-8. Notice, again, the call to intentional cooperation between us and God. God molds, enables, and empowers as we surrender abide in Jesus, and obey.


  • When it Comes to Salvation? – Look at passages such as John 3:5-8, 16-17, Ephesians 2:8-10, and Matthew 11:28-30. God put salvation’s plan in place, God in Christ made salvation possible, and God the Holy Spirit convicts us about Jesus and makes us new when we come to faith. We cannot earn it but must receive it by God’s grace in repentance and faith in Jesus.

  We are called to cooperation with God – surrendering, placing faith in Jesus, abiding in Jesus, walking by the Holy Spirit and relying on God to save us and empower us. I think sometimes, we either try to do God’s job for Him or fail to do what He expects of us. And, don’t forget that even our “part” in things still must be empowered by God.  It takes God to know God, to grow in God, and to serve God.

How do I Point my Family to Jesus? – Part 2

March 05, 2019

Joshua 24:14-15 & 1 Peter 3:15  Last week, we began looking at how to point our family to Jesus – whether lost ones that need saved or born-again ones that need to get on track or grow in Christ. We said the first two things are to accept the responsibility and recognize the challenges, and here are the next two.


Be Faithful and Prepared – As you think about the responsibility and challenges of pointing family to Jesus, what might open doors and help with that? I think 1 Peter 3:15 tells us. Think about how family see and experience Jesus if you hold Him as Lord in your heart and live that out. Also, notice the call to be ready and share truth in gentleness and respect. Demonstrating the goodness of Jesus will help you keep from undercutting the faith with your family and should open doors to point them to Jesus. And, I believe this holds for lost family and for born-again family you would influence for Christ.


Do the Work of Prayer – What is the connection between prayer and pointing family to Jesus? I believe a look at Scripture shows us it is vital, and here is how we can pray. For one thing, we need to pray for our own walk with Christ – ask the Lord to help you live out the Scriptures and bear the fruit of righteousness, and pray for wisdom, courage, grace, and opportunities to point them to  Jesus. Then, add to pray for your family members – for spiritual hunger, understanding of the Gospel, devotion to Jesus, and teachable spirits.


Pointing family to Jesus can mean sharing the Gospel with lost kinfolks, living faithfully and praying fervently until God   softens family enough for you to speak, or coming alongside a born-again family member to encourage or correct them in Christ.


How do I Point my Family to Jesus? – Part 1

February 26, 2019

Joshua 24:14-15 & 1 Peter 3:15  If you are a born-again Christian, what or who pointed you to Jesus? When you have had detours in your Christian life – who pointed you back to Jesus to get you on track again, and how did they do it?  What are the ripple effects of pointing a lost person to Jesus or a saved Christian back to a right walk with Jesus? What if we are  talking about lost or saved family members? How do we point them to Jesus?


  • Accept the Responsibility – What is your responsibility toward family? What if you see them not as family, but simply as other people who either are lost or saved? What is your responsibility toward them? Let me make some Bible-based observations about this. We are called to let love for God and the truths of His Word permeate our private and public lives. This would include family relationships. We are called to be wise toward non-saved people, let them see Christ-likeness in us, and share Jesus as we have occasion. We are called to encourage and help other Christians practically and in their walk with Christ.


  • Recognize the Challenges – One challenge is that we think too narrowly. We think only in terms of parents guiding non-adult children to accept Christ and be church attendees. We think only in terms of adult children of aging parents showing respect and care. We think pointing people to Jesus only means witnessing to lost people. Another  challenge is that we relegate spiritual growth to church and get distracted by other things in the sphere of the family. A third challenge is that, because of the family tie, because family knows your faults, or because of other reasons, you don’t have the sway with family you might have with other people.

We will look at two more pieces to this puzzle next week. But, remember, if we think of family simply as other people who are either lost or saved, we have a responsibility to point them to Jesus in whatever way is appropriate.

We’ve Never Been Here Before

February 19, 2019

Ecclesiastes 1:9-10, Psalm 25:4, Psalm 46:1-2  Sometimes, we find ourselves in unfamiliar territory – situations of which we would say, “We’ve never been here before.” In the Bible, I find some themes and principles to help us. I also think there are some good questions to ask when we are in this sort of place in our lives, homes, or church.


When Might we Say, “We’ve Never Been Here Before”?

  • When we first were born again and began trying to follow Jesus the world
  • Living in a culture that opposes our faith and values more than before
  • Changed family situations we had not anticipated
  • Declining health and the challenges of aging
  • A church without a building and looking at the prospects of closure in the foreseeable future


What Can be Going on When “We Haven’t Been Here Before”

  • Sometimes, we are on the way to a place of blessing and provision.
  • Sometimes, are in a place discipline.
  • Sometimes, we are in place of detour or waiting.
  • Sometimes, life is just challenging.
  • It always can be a time of growth and a time for potential good or bad response.


Guidelines When “We’ve Never Been Here Before”

  • God is a God of purpose – purpose for it or purpose in it.
  • God’s people are people with a purpose.
  • Your place doesn’t change who God is or who you are.
  • Scripture doesn’t say a lot about being in new situations as a distinct category of situation. It seems gives us principles by which to live consistently regardless of the situation.
  • Guard your faith and faithfulness against drift and the temptation to abandon God or harden against Him.
  • Be a person of the Word even when it doesn’t agree with the world.
  • Draw close to God as a person of dependence and prayer for His strength, wisdom, etc.
  • Keep living as a Godly person, being faithful to God’s purpose and glory so that guides you.


Guiding Questions When “We’ve Never Been Here Before”

  • How can we get our bearings and a Godly perspective? – the Word, reflection, Godly counsel, etc.
  • What might God be doing, and how can the Kingdom be furthered?
  • What is my best response and my role in this situation?
  • What resources do I need to walk through this in a Godly manner?


The Flesh and the Spirit

February 12, 2019

Romans 8:5-11  The New Testament contrasts the flesh and the spirit, but before we look at this, let’s clarify some ideas. The flesh can mean tangible things, our humanity, or the sinful nature / that which is opposed to God. The spirit / spiritual can mean simply non-material realities, our spirit, Godliness, or the Holy Spirit and His work.


Flesh vs. Spirit as Seen vs. Unseen (i.e. 2 Cor. 4:16-17) – Because of  practical needs, the world’s values and priorities, and our sinful desires, the seen and the things of this world make loud demands for our attention. However, we are to set our eyes on the unseen things of God’s glory, the Gospel, and God’s purposes.


Flesh vs. Spirit as Opposed to God vs. Honoring God (i.e. Rom. 8:5-14 & Gal. 5:16-25) – There is, on one hand, that which is good and God-honoring and, on the other, that which is evil and opposed to God. Our call is to honor God, and the power of God’s Spirit is how we do that.


Flesh vs. Spirit in our Efforts to Honor God (i.e. Gal. 5:16, Rom. 8:5-14, John 14:16-17, Col. 1:9, 2 Cor. 10:4) – If we are born again, we will want to honor God, and there is a resource given to us – the Holy Spirit – whose job it is, in part, to empower and guide us into Godliness. Our responsibility is to cultivate dependence on Him and to live in Him so that He produces Christ-likeness in us.


Flesh vs. Spirit in Coming to God (i.e. John 3: 5-8 & 6:63) – In John 3, Jesus spoke of the need to be born again by the Spirit – Nicodemus needed and we need to make a shift from the realm of our inability and fleshly effort to a           supernatural re-birth through repentance and faith in Jesus. In John 6, Jesus spoke of ongoing faith in Himself and feeding on Him in a spiritual sense – the people turned toward the physical, as we often do, and Jesus pointed them to the spiritual.


We can serve the flesh or pursue the things of God. We can follow the desires of the sinful flesh or crucify it and let the Holy Spirit enliven us for Godliness. We can try to serve the Lord in our weakness and come up short or rely on His enabling. Those who are not in Christ can do the best they know in the flesh and come up short or be born again by God’s Spirit through repentance and faith in Jesus.


The Seen and the Unseen

February 05, 2019
2 Corinthians 4:16b-18  What is the measure of success in our culture? What do  people value? What is driving force in your life? What if the normal pursuits are sidetracking us?

Fixing our on What is Unseen Rather Than Seen – What if that statement is not as crazy and contradictory as it sounds? What if there is more than what is most obvious, and that which is less obvious is more important? The “seen” can be daily routines and normal life issues, struggles and difficulties, wealth and possessions, accolades and influence, and more. The seen can be very demanding because a lot of “the seen” is important, because of our culture’s values, because of our sinful flesh at times, and because we are blinded to the glory of the Gospel and of Jesus. What is unseen is the “light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ” and the realizations that go with that.

The temporary nature of what is seen and the eternal nature of what is unseen motivate us to fix our eyes on the unseen. What if what we can’t see is more real and lasting than what we can? How should life look if that is true? What if the unseen shaped and guided our relationship to the seen? How might we shift our thinking and actions to deal with the eternal unseen rather than being distracted by the temporary seen?
Priority and Pursuit – Take a look at 1 John 2:15-17, 1 Timothy 6:7 & 17, Matthew 16:24-26, and Colossians 3:1-4.  As important and           attention-grabbing as the seen is (some parts more important than others), there is an unseen reality that is more important. Of all the priorities we might have and all the things that might catch our gaze and hold our attention, the unseen, the glory of God in the face of Christ is where it is at. Where are your eyes fixed?

Swimming Upstream

January 29, 2019
Matthew 7:13-14 & Romans 12:2a  Do you tend to be different or “go with the flow”? There is a tension between our culture and Biblical Christian life, so let’s look at “swimming upstream.”
Downstream is More Natural – In a river, if you sit in a boat and don’t do anything, you go downstream. When we look at Scripture (the Beatitudes, the Fruit of the Spirit, etc.) the Bible’s teachings are not what comes naturally. In our own lives, it can be easier to “go along to get along” and give free reign to our inclinations. However…
The Christian is Called to Swim Upstream – Occasionally, in a river, you might want to go upstream, like salmon that are compelled to swim upriver. The Bible shows us clearly that the Christian lifestyle and values go against the grain and that we are called to this change even though it puts us at odds with others.  You may have experienced this in your own life.
Challenges to Swimming Upstream – In nature, challenges to getting upriver include weakness, current, obstacles, and more. In our Christian lives, challenges include the sinful flesh, and traditions, opposition, and persecution. You may have sinful tendencies you are still overcoming.       You may have family members who are not waking with Christ. Work situations may push us to compromise and make faithfulness more difficult.
Helps for Swimming Upstream – Better strength and outside help can assist in going up a river, and I think of the fish ways or fish ladders that let salmon get past dams. In the Christian life of bucking the current, the Bible points us to the helps of Godly priorities, Godly discipline and strength, the Word and prayer, the Holy Spirit, and encouragement from other Christians.
Two Rivers Heading the Same Place – The dirty flow of the Trinity River and the pristine waters of the Frio River both end up in the Gulf of Mexico. Some people live evil lives that obviously head away from God. However, others live seemingly good lives, do good works, and practice some form of religion. Both types of people need to realize they are heading away from God. Scripture makes clear the common destiny of the obviously bad and the seemingly good apart from repentance and faith in Jesus.   Bucking the current does not make us Godly, but Godliness in Christ will result in “swimming upstream.”